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Your Review Rhythm Planner

Retirement doesn't come with annual appraisals or quarterly targets. This planner gives you back that structure — on your own terms.

⚡ Weekly 📋 Monthly 🧭 Quarterly 🌅 Annual
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How to use this planner: Select a review cadence from the tabs below and work through each section. Your notes are saved automatically as you type. Use the print button to create a paper copy, or revisit this file at each review point.

Your Four Review Cadences

Click any card below to jump straight to that review, or use the tabs. Each cadence has a different purpose — together they form a complete rhythm for life after work.

Weekly
15–20 mins
A simple pulse check. How are you feeling? What needs attention this week?
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Monthly
45–60 mins
Look back, look forward. Finances, purpose, and progress reviewed properly.
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Quarterly
2–3 hours
A deeper dive. Are you heading in the right direction? What needs to change?
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Annual
Half a day
Your full retirement life review. Identity, purpose, money, and the year ahead.

Weekly Check-In

15–20 minutes · Every Monday morning, or Sunday evening

"When you worked, Mondays had a built-in purpose. This is yours now. A short, honest check-in that keeps you from drifting — and helps you start each week with intention rather than inertia."

1 Pulse Check — How are you actually doing?
In one sentence, how would you describe this past week?
Overall, how did the week feel? (1 = rough, 10 = excellent)
Rough weekExcellent week
What went well this week?
What felt hard or draining?

2 Energy & Engagement
What gave you the most energy this week?
What felt purposeful or meaningful?
How was your social connection this week?

3 This Week's Intentions
The one thing that would make this week a success Just one. Keep it specific and achievable.
Weekly intentions checklist
  • I have some physical activity planned
  • I have at least one social engagement lined up
  • I know what I'm doing with my time this week
  • I have something to look forward to
  • My spending is broadly on track
One thing I'm committing to this week
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Monthly Review

45–60 minutes · First weekend of each month

"A month is long enough for patterns to emerge. This review helps you notice what's working, catch drift before it becomes a problem, and set a clear intention for the month ahead — across both identity and money."

1 The Month in Review
Month and year
How would you sum up this month in a few sentences?
Three things that went well this month
What didn't go to plan — and why?

2 Identity Reset Check — The Four Dimensions

Rate how each dimension felt this month (1–5) and add a brief note. These four areas — Role, Structure, Status, Social Connection — are where retirement identity is won or lost.

🎭 Role — "Who am I now?"
🗓 Structure — "How's my rhythm?"
⭐ Status — "Am I valued?"
🤝 Social — "Am I connected?"

3 Three-Pot Financial Check

A quick sense-check on your three pots. No need for exact figures — just note whether each pot feels on track, under pressure, or healthier than expected.

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Essential Spending Pot
Budget this month
Actual this month
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Spending Pot
Budget this month
Actual this month
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Reserve Pot
Current balance
Target balance
Any financial concerns or surprises this month?

4 Setting Up Next Month
What is the one area that needs the most attention next month?
What would a "good month" look like next month?
My commitment for next month
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Quarterly Deep-Dive

2–3 hours · Every 3 months — give this proper time and space

"Drift happens gradually. Three months is about the right window to catch it — long enough for patterns to solidify, short enough to correct course without too much undoing. Set aside a proper morning for this one."

1 Quarter in Context
Which quarter and year?
Overall, how has this quarter gone? (1–10)
If you had to describe this quarter in one sentence, what would it be?

2 Wins, Lessons & Regrets
What are your three biggest wins from this quarter? Think broadly — health, relationships, purpose, finance, personal growth.
What's the most important thing you've learned this quarter?
If you could change one thing about how this quarter went, what would it be?

3 Direction Check — Are You on Course?
At the start of retirement (or this year), what were you hoping this phase of life would look like?
How closely does your current life match that vision?
What areas of life are going well and should be protected?
What's drifting or being neglected — and what would it take to correct?

4 Financial Quarter Review
Has your spending been broadly in line with your three-pot system?
How does your Reserve Pot look at the end of this quarter?
Any significant financial decisions, changes, or concerns to note?
Does your financial plan still reflect your actual life and priorities? Plans often need adjusting. Has anything changed that warrants a rethink?

5 Setting the Next Quarter
What are your three intentions for next quarter? Not tasks or targets — intentions. How do you want the quarter to feel and what do you want to move forward?
What habit or behaviour would have the biggest positive impact next quarter?
My quarterly commitment — what I'll do differently next quarter
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Annual Life & Finance Review

Half a day · December or January — treat it as a proper occasion

"This is your most important review of the year. Not a performance appraisal — you've left those behind. This is an honest conversation with yourself about the life you're building, whether it's the one you actually want, and what the year ahead should look like."

1 The Year That Was
Year under review
How was this year, overall? (1–10)
Difficult yearOutstanding year
What were the five most significant moments or events of the year? Positive and negative. The ones that shaped you or shifted something.
What are you most proud of from this year?
What's the one thing you wish you'd done differently?

2 Retirement Identity Reset — Annual Audit

Rate each dimension honestly, then write a few sentences on where you've progressed and where you still feel the loss. This is the most important section of the year.

🎭 Role — "Who am I now?"
🗓 Structure — "Is my life well-ordered?"
⭐ Status — "Do I still matter?"
🤝 Social — "Am I truly connected?"
Looking at those four dimensions together — which is your biggest priority to develop next year?

3 Annual Financial Health Review
Has your Three-Pot system worked this year? What adjustments are needed?
What is your financial confidence score this year? (1–10)
Compared to this time last year, your financial picture is…
What major financial decisions or changes do you anticipate next year? Pension reviews, property, inheritance, large purchases, care costs — anything on the horizon.
Is there any financial situation that's been quietly worrying you that you haven't properly faced?

4 The Year Ahead — Designing Your Best Year
In twelve months' time, what would you need to see to call this a great year? Not a wish list. What would genuinely matter — the things that, if they happened, would mean you lived this year well?
What are your three priorities for the year — one from identity, one from finances, one from life?
What would you need to let go of to make space for the year you want? Commitments, habits, relationships, expectations, resentments — what's taking up space it shouldn't?
What advice would the version of you from five years' time give you right now?

5 A Note to Your Future Self
Write a brief letter to the man who will open this review in twelve months' time. What do you want him to know? What are you hoping he'll have done? What are you proud of today that you want him to remember?
My word for the year ahead — and my one non-negotiable commitment
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